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I had my first time at confirmation camp

ZURICH: Rookie Svenj (18) was deflowered at conf camp. It was not a pleasant experience for her.

"I had sex for the first time when I was 15 at confirmation camp. There was a guy at the camp who I had a little crush on - and he thought I was nice too. My colleagues told me a few days before the camp started that he had told them he wanted to have sex with me that week. I didn't believe them at first. Then one evening when I was at camp, he actually knocked on the door of my room. He asked my friends to leave the room - they already knew why and went out giggling. When we were alone in the room, he pulled a condom out of his trouser pocket and asked me if I wanted to sleep with him. I was excited and said yes without much thought. We undressed - I only took off my clothes underneath - and he was already inside me. Fortunately, it didn't hurt.

He kissed me a few times, but otherwise just looked at himself - à la in, out, done. It was over after just under five minutes. He thanked me and left. I stayed behind in the room and thought to myself: "Wow, that's it now?"

It was a bad experience for me because he didn't pay attention to my needs at all. I realized that I had sacrificed my first time for a guy who wasn't interested in me at all, but just wanted sex. The experience left its mark on me: I struggled to get involved with a new man for a long time. Today, I regret my first time.

So here's my tip for you: Really take your time for your first sex and think about who you want to do it with. You should be ready and feel comfortable - then it will be fun."

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