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Suddenly he tried to kiss me

Zurich. Rookie Muri (18) A few weeks ago, I went out with a few friends on a Saturday night in Zurich. The atmosphere in the club was great: there was good music playing and the whole place was full of people. We had a few drinks at the bar and hit the dance floor.

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It wasn't long before I was approached by a tall guy with dark hair. After exchanging a few words, we started dancing together. At first we moved normally to the music and had practically no physical contact. After about 20 minutes, however, I noticed that he wanted more and more: His hands kept moving demandingly to my hips, where he wanted to leave them. I started to feel uncomfortable and tried to release his fingers. I also told him not to touch me. But he didn't listen to me, on the contrary: he suddenly leaned down and tried to kiss me. I was shocked, pushed him away from me and told him to leave.

Even after my clear message, he simply ignored my words: He kept trying to hit on me. I was so perplexed that I no longer knew how to defend myself. So I made eye contact with my friends, who were standing a few meters away from me, and told them to help me out of the situation.

They came to me straight away, pulled me away from the guy and told him we had to go to the toilet. Once we were in the toilet, we took a detour back to the dance floor and then stayed in the corner of the club furthest away from him.

I think it's really cheeky when men don't take no for an answer on the way out. It should go without saying that you should respect each other's boundaries.

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Muri

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