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Do I have to have a threesome now?

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In GummiLove Rookie Emi's circle of friends, threesome sex is a big topic right now. She's not sure if she's ready for it.

"A colleague of mine recently went on a language study trip. When she came back from this trip, she told me very enthusiastically that she had a threesome there, with a man and a woman! Since she had this experience with a woman, she has become very curious and is now finding out what she likes: she tries it with women, but also with men.

I was super happy for her, but then I also asked myself whether a threesome like that would be something for me at all. I gave it a lot of thought! I mean.... I'm only 19 years old, I don't really know what I like and what I don't like yet.

I'm not ready yet

And I also don't know what the person below or above me might like or what isn't their thing at all. And if a third person comes along, then I have to look at them AND the other person. I would probably just be overwhelmed by that. That's why it's clear to me that I'm not ready for a threesome yet - but maybe that will come later, when I have more experience and can allow it.

Because of my colleague, threesome sex is a big topic in our circle of friends at the moment. 'I heard she had a threesome', they say and ask themselves 'Do I have to have a threesome now too? But I don't want to be put under pressure by my friends, who are very keen to experiment. I say to myself, 'I don't want that now, I'd just be overwhelmed.

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