GummiLove Rookie Fynnsch had his first time at the age of 18. But it didn't go smoothly at all.
Rookie Fynnsch talks about his first time having sexIt is a technical term for "having sex" and specifically means when a penis penetrates a vagina or a vagina receives a penis. It refers to a sexual encounter between two or more people. In colloquial language, there are various expressions .... Stirnemann / 20 minutes
"I had my first time when I was 18," says Rookie Fynnsch. "I had been with my girlfriend for five months, but she didn't want to have sex until then." She changed her mind during a TV evening with Netflix: "Suddenly she said she was ready, she wanted to sleep with me. I could hardly believe it and was super excited." Everything went well between them during foreplayForeplay refers to all forms of sexual arousal and stimulation that take place before sex. In addition to touching such as kissing, caressing, rubbing against each other, this can also include erotic talk about what you would like to do wit..., but things became more difficult after that. You can see what went wrong with Fynnsch's first time in the video.
The sexpert tip
Every man is different and not a machine, so there's no reason to be ashamed of anything. Some men reach orgasm very quickly and others only with difficulty. The important thing is to talk to each other. Sex can be learned and is not a competitive sport where you just have to score points. It's also important that you don't put yourself under pressure: it's completely normal that you don't always come straight away. The penis doesn't just consist of the outer visible part, it also goes a long way inwards, which is why it is controlled by the pelvic floor muscles. Nervousness often causes the pelvis to tense up, which can make orgasm even more difficult. It is important to remain flexible in the pelvis during sex and not to stiffen up. Rolling, loose movements and deep, flowing abdominal breathing are very beneficial. The thrusting technique, i.e. "ramming", is counterproductive.
Pelvic floor training can be very helpful and practising masturbationForeign word for masturbation or masturbate. doesn't hurt either. However, it is important to use different techniques: If you also get used to a stiff pelvis during masturbationMasturbation refers to the stimulation (stroking, rubbing, caressing) of one's own genitals to give pleasure. In colloquial language, men also talk about "wanking" or "jerking off". Everyone can decide for themselves whether they enjoy it o... and your hand does all the moving, this can lead to orgasmOrgasm refers to the climax of sexual pleasure with the subsequent feeling of a certain pleasant relaxation (satisfaction). For people with a penis, orgasm is usually accompanied by ejaculation. People with a vulva can also experience ejacu... problems during sexSex is an intimate activity between two or more people who share physical closeness. Sex can be practiced in different ways, depending on the preferences and desires of the people involved. The only rule that always applies: sex without mut.... Here, too, it's important to be loose in the pelvis, vary your hand and pressure changes, breathe deeply and play with different stimuli (not always just pornPorn is the abbreviation for pornography. It is "pornographic" when naked bodies and sexual activities are depicted very directly and in great detail and are produced primarily for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This can involve all kin...).
Your GummiLove expert Corinne*
*The gender asterisk (*) is a form of gender-inclusive language that includes all genders. It originally comes from computer language, where it stands for an infinite number of possibilities.CorinneRietmann is a sexual healthspecialist and projectmanager foreducation and prevention at GummiLove.
