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“She tried to persuade me to cheat – even though she knew about my girlfriend”

GummiLove Rookie Fynnsch was hit on at a concert. Although he made it clear to the woman that he was in a steady relationship, she didn't let up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1umwsY2NNFc
Rookie Fynnsch talks about fidelity.
GummiLove/20 minutes

During a concert, rookie Fynnsch and his buddies meet a group of women. "We had fun together and danced. But then one of the women came closer and closer and tried to kiss me," says the rookie. Although he found the young woman "mega beautiful", Fynnsch blocked it - because he has a girlfriend. "I told her the same thing, but she tried to convince me and explain that my girlfriend would never find out anyway."
Watch the video above to find out what Fynnsch decided. Below, sex expert and GummiLove founder Corinne explains what she thinks about the situation.

The sexpert tip

"It's not always easy to stay faithful, even if you want to. Parties, a good atmosphere and perhaps the influence of alcohol fuel many temptations. Fynnsch was able to resist and remain faithful, as it is very important to him. But he also had to put up a real fight in this situation. That's not acceptable. It is disrespectful if a "no" is not accepted and the person then has to justify or explain themselves. Flirting can of course be rejected. If you are rejected, you can smile and say goodbye in a friendly manner. You should be honest and friendly, because the other person may have had to muster up a lot of courage to start the conversation. Respect is everything!"

*Corinne Rietmann is a sexual health specialist and project manager for education and prevention at GummiLove.

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