What type of relationship are you?

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Add up all your answers and find outOuting, outing: To out someone is to disclose a person's gender identity and/or sexual orientation to another person or group against his/her will. which relationshipA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain... type you are in the evaluation.

Which symbol represents a relationshipA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain... for you?

1. Heart with fire
2. Heart with arrow
3. Two entwined hearts

Do you find it easy to trust the other person in the relationship?

1. Yes, I trust blindly
2. Not in every situation, I am afraid of being hurt
3. It's not easy for me, I'm afraid of losing

What is important to you in a relationship?

1. It is important to me that I can do my thing and have enough freedom.
2. I make sure that both people in the relationship feel comfortable and can make their own decisions.
3. I think it is important in a relationship to do things together or to discuss plans well in advance.

How do you feel after an argument?

1. I give the situation some time. Quarrels are part of relationshipsA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain....
2. I am totally angry and immediately think about ending it.
3. I feel bad and guilty, regardless of whether I am right or wrong.

How do you find yourself?

1. I'm totally okay with it; I'd be happy to be with myself.
2. I like some things about me, but I also find certain things not okay or beautiful.
3. I have trouble finding things about me that are good or beautiful.

You write to the other person in the relationship and don't get a reply until the evening, what do you think?

1. The other person was probably busy.
2. Hopefully the other person is okay and nothing bad has happened.
3. I feel bad, I keep asking myself what is more important than writing me a short reply.

What kind of doubts could you get in a relationship?

1. I have no doubts. If it's meant to be, it'll be fine, and if not, it just wasn't meant to be.
2. Whether I deserve this relationship at all.
3. Whether I'm good enough for this relationship.

How much contact do you want in your relationship?

1. Since I like to have my own space, not too much, but still doing things together or having fun is important.
2. I think it's important to have enough contact in the relationship, but in a way that is right for both of us.
3. I think it's important to have a lot of contact, if not in person, then certainly chatting, facetime or on the phone.

What turns you on?

1. That a person likes me for who I am and doesn't want to change me.
2. That a person clearly shows an interest in me and talks openly with me about everything.
3. That a person only wants me and shows me that I am attractive and valuable.

Evaluation

9 - 14 points

You like yourself the way you are, which is great. You are capable of having a really great and strong relationship. You can talk openly about your feelings, desires and boundaries. You trust in a partnershipA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain... and are very relaxed. You are therefore a real asset to a long and beautiful relationship. It becomes difficult for you when a person wants to change you or doesn't give you any freedom. In this case, you are more important to yourself and decide for yourself and against the relationship. You were allowed to grow up sheltered as a child and your needs were catered for. Not everyone has learned the skills you have in your life. Be patient with others who are not so good at talking about feelings and boundaries. Be careful not to overstep boundaries with others or come across as selfish.

15 - 20 points

You have a strong desire for a relationship, but at the same time you are afraid of getting hurt and having a close relationship. You often ask yourself, "Do I deserve this relationship or is there something better for me?" When arguments arise, you want to flee immediately or don't give the situation a chance. You are a very sensitive person. You take good care of the other person and it is very important to you that the other person in the relationship with you is doing well. You take loving care of the other person and it's nice to spend time with you. However, it's also possible that you don't feel how the other person is doing and you seem very disinterested. Try to let go of your protective mechanism a little. Arguing also offers an opportunity to grow in the relationship. You may never have experienced genuine loveLove is a strong feeling of emotional and often physical attraction to another person. It can manifest itself in various forms, such as romantic love or love for friends and family. Ideas and experiences of love and relationships develop du..., respect, appreciation and support. That's why you now feel like you don't deserve it. Have a relationship with yourself and learn that you are loved, respected and valued unconditionally.

21 - 25 points

You often think you're not good enough, no matter how hard you try. You're afraid of losing the other person in the relationship. That's why you always try to do everything right and tend to put your needs second. You find it difficult to express your wishes in relationships or to set boundaries. This is why you are often taken advantage of or end up with people who treat you badly. It is important to you to spend a lot of time with the other person. This gives you a sense of security. If the other person is doing well, you are doing well too. If the other person is doing badly, you feel guilty. It could be that you didn't have an easy childhood. That parents didn't respond to your needs or were unreliable and unpredictable. You never had security, so you are constantly busy studying your environment so that you can adapt immediately. You may also be very controlling and jealous in the relationship out of fear. You are consciously manipulating your relationship in order to keep the other person tied to you. It's important that you work on yourself and love yourself. You are the only person who can give you security. You should always come first, only then will you be ready for a healthy relationship.