The first time is like standing on a skateboard for the first time. It doesn't work perfectly right from the start, you fall off and you still have to practice a bit before it works properly and you can start skating on it. But anyone who has ever learned something new knows that the journey to your destination can be a lot of fun.
That's how it is with sexuality, the most important thing is to have fun and enjoy it. Don't stiffen up, as this will affect your body and its functions. Stay relaxed and don't forget to breathe 🙂
Excitement is completely normal, which is why premature ejaculationEjaculation is the ejection of semen from the penis. The ejaculate is the corresponding fluid (seminal fluid) that is released during ejaculation (see semen). People with a vulva can also ejaculate a secretion during orgasm, which comes fro..., lack of ejaculationThe term ejaculation (the foreign word is ejaculation) refers to the jerky ejection of sperm from the penis during orgasm. The very first ejaculation in boys occurs at the beginning of puberty. Around 80% of ejaculation consists of fluid fr... or flaccid erections are not unusual for the first time.
You can learn to control your cum by masturbatingMasturbation is a kind of sexuality. It means that you explore your own sexuality and give yourself tenderness, stimulation and satisfaction. You can explore your own erogenous zones and create pleasure yourself with the help of touch, toys.... This will help you get to know your body well. Practice putting on the condomAuch Präservativ genannt. Ein Kondom ist eine schlauchförmige Gummihülle, die über den Penis gestreift wird, um während des Geschlechtsverkehrs eine Barriere zu bilden und so eine Schwangerschaft und/oder die Übertragung von sexuell ... on your own during masturbationForeign word for masturbation or masturbate. so that it works well the first time. You can also use your breathing and your thoughts to control your cum. If you feel like you might come, you can also change position or take a short break to kissA kiss is a form of physical intimacy in which two people press their lips together to express feelings such as affection, passion or friendship. There are different types of kisses such as the hand kiss, cheek kiss, French kiss and so on. ... and caress yourself, for example.
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