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How can I approach her?

Last week I saw a beautiful girl at a youth club who I would have liked to talk to. This week on Wednesday I have another chance to approach her. Do you have any tips on how I should approach her and how to flirt?

Question submitted on 3. July 2021 by Nikola

Corinne Rietmann says

Deine Sexpertin von GummiLove

Dear Nikola

Sometimes you don't just have to use words to show that you like someone. You can also do this with a look, a smile or a nice gesture. If you want to approach her, the best way to do this is with a positive question like: "What's your favorite song?" or "Where was your best vacation?". With a question like this, she thinks about the question and not about what you want from her. She also associates the question with a positive feeling, which is always good.
Humor is also always good, it should simply be respectful and positive. Good luck approaching her

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