I don’t know if I’ve had an orgasm. How can I tell?

Jannik says

Sexualpädagoge, Social Justice und Radical Diversity Trainer

Hi ldk

Don't worry, it's completely normal to be unsure whether you had an orgasmOrgasm refers to the climax of sexual pleasure with the subsequent feeling of a certain pleasant relaxation (satisfaction). For people with a penis, orgasm is usually accompanied by ejaculation. People with a vulva can also experience ejacu... the first time or not. Everyone experiences it differently. An orgasm is an intense sensation during sexSex is an intimate activity between two or more people who share physical closeness. Sex can be practiced in different ways, depending on the preferences and desires of the people involved. The only rule that always applies: sex without mut..., sometimes accompanied by muscle movements in the body. It can feel like a strong feeling of happiness or a relaxed and satisfying feeling.

To get to know your own body better, you can experiment with masturbationForeign word for masturbation or masturbate.. This will help you find outOuting, outing: To out someone is to disclose a person's gender identity and/or sexual orientation to another person or group against his/her will. which touches are pleasurable for you. By exploring yourself, you will better understand whether you have an orgasm or not.

But remember that an orgasm is not the most important thing during sex. It's about closeness, connectionA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain... and fun. It's not a bad thing if you don't have an orgasm. Everyone experiences sex differently. The main thing is that you find it enjoyable and beautiful.