I had sex with a trans* woman. Am I gay?
Hello GummiLove
I was on vacation in Thailand and met a beautiful Thai girl when I went outOuting, outing: To out someone is to disclose a person's gender identity and/or sexual orientation to another person or group against his/her will.. We had a lot of fun, but then we had a huge surprise in bed. It turned out that she had a penisPenis is another name for the penis and, together with the scrotum, is one of the external male sex organs. The penis consists of the shaft and the glans. The glans is the most sensitive part of the male body and is covered by a foreskin, u.... At first I was totally shocked, but somehow it was also nice and special. Now I'm extremely worried about whether I'm gayColloquial (English) term for "homosexual". or bi or what I am. How can I find out, or is this normal? Thank you for your answer
Hello
It's great that you're sharing your experience with us and believe me, you're not the only person who has had an experience like this - there are lots of people who have similar experiences.
The way you describe it sounds like a very exciting experience. Whether you are gay, bisexualBisexual means that someone is attracted to both people of the same sex and people of the opposite sex. This attraction can relate to romantic or sexual feelings. There is no 'right' or 'wrong' way to be bisexual, and there are many differe... or another sexual orientationSexual orientation is the type of sexual attraction you feel for another person. Each person has a unique sexual orientation that can change throughout life. For example, you can be bisexual, asexual, homosexual, heterosexual, queer, etc., ... is entirely up to you.
You had sexSex is an intimate activity between two or more people who share physical closeness. Sex can be practiced in different ways, depending on the preferences and desires of the people involved. The only rule that always applies: sex without mut... with a woman. There are (transTrans (also transgender or transident, with or without " * ") is a term for people who do not identify with the gender to which they were assigned at birth. A trans man was assigned to the female gender at birth based on external sexual cha...) women who have a penis. So the way I see it, you had a heterosexualHeterosexual means that someone has romantic or sexual feelings for people of the opposite sex. For example, a man who is attracted to women would be heterosexual. A woman who is attracted to men would also be heterosexual. There are many d... experience with a trans* woman. If it was nice, that's just great! See it as an enriching experience and don't worry too much.
The main thing is that you feel comfortable in your body and your way of loving.
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