I have a disability and would like to have sex
I have an unusual question:
I am disabled (multisystem atrophy and leukemia and assume that no one here can/will help me either.
I haven't had sex for many years. About 16 years ago I knew a lesbian woman with whom I could talk about everything, including sex (just talking). Unfortunately, she has been living in another city for a long time now. I miss these conversations and I also miss SEX! There's no solution for that, not even x "dating" sites etc. I've tried everything up to pointless advertisements in the newspaper, most women aren't interested in sexSex is an intimate activity between two or more people who share physical closeness. Sex can be practiced in different ways, depending on the preferences and desires of the people involved. The only rule that always applies: sex without mut..., sh... old socialization.
I wonder if I can find the right people to talk to here. I have to try and grasp at every straw. I'm sure most people don't understand something like this. Sh...
Best regards
Bernd
Dear Bernd
I understand your problem and I think it's great of you to express your needs. You are not the only one with an illness or disability who suffers greatly from this situation.
It's quite difficult for me to advise you on this topic here in the chat, as there's a lot we don't know about you, such as whether you live alone and can cope, how your mobility is restricted by the MSA, etc. I think it is important that you come to a good specialist centre where you can talk about your concerns.
Here you can find the counseling centers for sexual health in Switzerland:
See you soon,
Corinne
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