I have problems reaching orgasm during sex.

Corinne Rietmann says

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Dear Fuultier

Thank you for your question. Just as men sometimes come too early, men can also sometimes have difficulties with their orgasmsOrgasm refers to the climax of sexual pleasure with the subsequent feeling of a certain pleasant relaxation (satisfaction). For people with a penis, orgasm is usually accompanied by ejaculation. People with a vulva can also experience ejacu.... But sexSex is an intimate activity between two or more people who share physical closeness. Sex can be practiced in different ways, depending on the preferences and desires of the people involved. The only rule that always applies: sex without mut... is like an instrument, you can learn anything. When you masturbate, you often tense your entire pelvic floor and only move your hand. It is important that you remain flexibleFlexible as a suffix for gender identities and sexualities means that a person feels that they belong primarily to one identity or sexuality, but perceives this as malleable or knows exceptions to this. in your pelvis during sex. Try to make rolling, loose movements. You should avoid the thrusting technique, i.e. rammingIt is a technical term for "having sex" and specifically means when a penis penetrates a vagina or a vagina receives a penis. It refers to a sexual encounter between two or more people. In colloquial language, there are various expressions ... in and outOuting, outing: To out someone is to disclose a person's gender identity and/or sexual orientation to another person or group against his/her will.. Make sure that you breathe deeply into your belly and that your breathing is always flowing and not stagnant or very shallow. Your penisPenis is another name for the penis and, together with the scrotum, is one of the external male sex organs. The penis consists of the shaft and the glans. The glans is the most sensitive part of the male body and is covered by a foreskin, u... is not just the outer visible part, it also goes inwards, which is why it is controlled by the pelvis and these muscles. You can also do pelvic floor exercises in everyday life and breathe in and out deeply.
MasturbationForeign word for masturbation or masturbate. definitely doesn't hurt, but make sure that you don't get your body used to a stiff pelvis and that only your hand controls the whole movement. Try to be loose in your pelvis, change your hand or fingers and play with more or less pressure. If you always hold the penis very tightly during masturbationMasturbation refers to the stimulation (stroking, rubbing, caressing) of one's own genitals to give pleasure. In colloquial language, men also talk about "wanking" or "jerking off". Everyone can decide for themselves whether they enjoy it o... and this pressure cannot be applied through the vulvaEntirety of the external female reproductive organs: mons veneris, external vulval lips, internal vulval lips, clitoral pearl, vestibule with the openings of the urethra and vagina., this can also have an effect. Try playing with different stimuli. If you only ever masturbate with pornPorn is the abbreviation for pornography. It is "pornographic" when naked bodies and sexual activities are depicted very directly and in great detail and are produced primarily for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This can involve all kin..., your brain gets used to these stimuli. If these are then not present during sex, this can also cause difficulties.
There are things in life that you don't want to learn, but here you have something really nice that you can learn. Take your time, don't put yourself under pressure, try to feel your body and don't stay in your head with stressful thoughts. Practice makes perfect and always stay relaxed.
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