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I’m too shy to approach a girl.

I'm too shy to ask a girl out. What can I do about it?

Question submitted on 8. August 2020 by Kevin

Corinne Rietmann says

Deine Sexpertin von GummiLove

Dear Kevin

Many people know this problem. It's important that you do something about it. It's best to start with yourself, what you like about yourself and what you have to offer. Let go of the idea that you can't do this and that everything has to be perfect. It is always best to approach another person by creating a positive thought. Ask a question about their favorite drink, best vacation, best song...
Be respectful and positive, then everything you send will often come back the same way.

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