I’m unhappy with my figure, can you help me?
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Maybe this question doesn't quite fit in, but I've been feeling this way for several years now. I just don't feel comfortable in my body. I'm not the thinnest and I just can't accept that for myself. I've been on various diets and started exercising but nothing helps! In summer I only walk around in long dresses and going to the swimming pool is outOuting, outing: To out someone is to disclose a person's gender identity and/or sexual orientation to another person or group against his/her will. of the question. I hide my figure as much as possible because I feel so uncomfortable when I don't. My family often make unnecessary suggestions that don't really help me. I want to change something but I don't know how, can you help me?
Dear Margarida, I understand you very well and it is also courageous to write this. I could just write to you now, accept yourself and loveLove is a strong feeling of emotional and often physical attraction to another person. It can manifest itself in various forms, such as romantic love or love for friends and family. Ideas and experiences of love and relationships develop du... yourself as you are. Which is how it should be. But if you don't feel comfortable in your body and want to change something, that's fine too. The main thing is that you do it for yourself and not for others.
You could go to your doctor and ask to go to a nutritional consultation. This will then be covered by your health insurance. You'll get the right support there, because a diet like this is only frustrating if everything goes back to the way it was before anyway.
Make sure you do things that make you happy. Follow feministsThe term feminism encompasses numerous, sometimes opposing political movements and theories. Feminism refers to the movement for equal rights for women and men and the abolition of gender discrimination. It advocates equality for women and ... on your social media who have a healthy relationshipA relationship is a deep, close connection between two or more people. Relationships can be romantic, platonic, sexual or familial and can take various forms, such as couple relationships, friendships or parent-child relationships. Maintain... with their bodies and not emaciated models. This also has a lot to do with where and who you are influenced by.
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